“Just because something makes you happy doesn’t mean it can’t make you cry.”

I don’t know why but this is the first thought that came into my mind when I woke up.

It’s one thing that I don’t understand about myself…there are times when thoughts as strange as this would pop in my mind and I don’t know where its coming from. Its like I’ve swallowed the “Nuggets of wisdom” or other self-help books and regurgitates some of its contents from time to time.

But come to think of it, it does have a point right? Something that makes us happy often makes us cry.

Its the idea that the things that makes us happy the most are also those that could hurt us the most. Its like loving people too much. The people you love makes you happy the most yet they are also often the first ones who hurts us and causes us pain.

Why is that so?

Why do we hurt the people we love? Why are we hurt by the people we love?